The Magic of Romcoms: Why are They So Damn Relatable?

Our heroine's goofiness is endearing. Credit: Bridget Jones' Movies

I recently watched Bridget Jones: Mad About the Boy. The child in me is overjoyed, considering the first movie came out in the early 2000s, and I have been an admirer ever since. In this latest installment, Bridget has finally found the love of her life- not once, but twice. She even created a miniature Bridget in the process. Did you notice her cute, quirky and confident daughter? That’s the kind of confidence Bridget could never quite muster.

Though I loved seeing her journey unfold, I couldn’t help but feel disappointed that we never could see what domestic bliss looked like for her and Mark- something that had been in the making for more than two decades!

Watching the film made me reflect on why romcoms appeal to me so much, and I realised it’s never just one reason. These stories often revolve around a relatable woman who is trying to navigate life. She is struggling in her career, her relationships or both (aren’t we all?). Her love interest is swoon worthy and irresistibly charming. She has a strong female presence in her life- a a best friend, sister or mother- who stands by her side no matter what. The sets in the movies are impeccable- Nancy Meyers set the golden standard), and the overall tone is light-hearted and comforting.

As the story unfolds, she faces various challenges- some she overcomes, others, she doesn’t. But by the end, she has gained clarity on her priorities. She wants a wholesome, one that is not consumed entirely by either her relationship or career but is instead balanced. Most importantly, she has a better relationship with herself. The movie feels like an awakening of sorts, and I love that it happens in a happy setting.

Which is your favourite rom-com of all times and why?